"Some people think that if they always assume the best in people and their intentions, that's "being positive," but it's really not. Now, it's not good to assume the worst, either. Just don't assume anything. Ask. Observe. Ask again. Observe again. If you only assume the best, you will eventually be disappointed when you realize... Continue Reading →

"There's a big difference between giving someone the benefit of the doubt and turning a blind eye to anything someone does just because you like them a lot. Being generous and understanding are great qualities, just make sure someone doesn't use them all up on you. Kindness should be appreciated, not taken advantage of.  "Doe... Continue Reading →

"Sometimes when we do good things, believe in people, or try our hardest, we seem to get nothing in return...not even a "thank you." While this can be very disheartening, please don't ever think it was a waste of time. By putting good out into the world, you have done your part in making it... Continue Reading →

"Someone else's insecurity and mistrust are the roots of big time drama. You can expect to spend a lot of time explaining, justifying, coddling, and walking on eggshells if you choose to be close to someone who struggles with those things. With your best efforts and patience, you may be able to help them some,... Continue Reading →

"If a friend stops speaking with you because they believed gossip about you without even asking you "your side," then you didn't really lose a friend. You only lost a person who didn't trust or believe in you...and that's not really a loss at all. It hurts because it feels unfair, and you would not... Continue Reading →

"When we are young, we trust fully. We even believe in the Easter Bunny or Tooth Fairy, just because we're told they exist. At some point, we find out about lies. At first, lying comes as a shock, but many come to accept it as a "normal" way of life. To trust, you have to... Continue Reading →

"Choosing forgiveness doesn't mean that the wounds will suddenly vanish. All healing - physical, emotional, and mental - takes time. Choosing forgiveness means that you've decided to begin the healing process.  "Doe Zantamata https://www.psychics.com/life-coach/spiritual-life-coaching-by-lady-dyanna/    

"How do you make peace with pain? If it were towards a person, a time in life, or an entire childhood, recognize first that you can be grateful that time is over. What remains today is a memory. If 10 years were spent living in that pain, know that this day forward, you get to... Continue Reading →