“Viewing rejection as “you’re not good enough” will cause you to try to change in order to become “good enough” for that person or circumstance. Seeing rejection as “it’s not right for you, but they happened to recognize it first,” frees you to find something or someone who is right for you instead. At the…
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“Old habits die hard, but if you know the results and don’t want to see them anymore, you’ve got to change the choices that keep leading up to them. The more they’ve happened, the easier it is to recognize a pattern. Most times, you need to be able to see a pattern before you can…
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“Behold, my friends, the spring is come; the earth has gladly received the embraces of the sun, and we shall soon see the results of their love.” — Sitting Bull
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“If someone spends time going out of their way to harm others, it’s really sad. It means they have no clue how precious and brief their own life really is. Don’t waste any of your life being angry with them. To do so would be giving them power over your happiness. They will regretfully prove…
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“Never iron a four-leaf clover because you don’t want to press your luck.”
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“What you impress people by is what you are impressed by in other people. If you are impressed by kindness and generosity, that means those things are in you and you believe they are important. Those who are impressed by displays of status, power, flash, or waving money around don’t yet see the value in…
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Every thought, every spoken word, every action sets a process in motion. We control what we send out, but not the results or consequences that follow. Good intentions set forth with the goal to destroy a perceived wrong will cause destruction in their wake. Good intentions set forth in love will yield good results, eventually….
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“Sometimes people confuse self-love with big ego. The two are totally different. A person with a big ego thinks they are better than others. A person who loves him or herself doesn’t think they are better or worse than others. Comparing is useless, as we all have strengths and weaknesses. Focusing on one or the…
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“The worst thing about lies is that they cause a person to doubt if they should trust so much. But the problem isn’t too much trust, the problem is too many lies. Recognize when you can’t trust a certain person anymore but don’t let that spill over to all people. You’ll never find true love…
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“When you love someone, you love the person as they are, and not as you’d like them to be.” Leo Tolstoy.
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