“Your mind wants to be right, but your soul wants the truth. This is why you should never discuss conflicting ideas in anger or sadness. Anger and sadness are emotions of the mind. When faced with the truth that your soul recognizes, you will feel it in your heart, but with the anger or sadness,…
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“Time is never truly wasted. The point of life is to learn. Even if you were stuck in a bad relationship for a long, LONG time, it was the exact amount of time that was needed for the lesson. If when we were born, we received a guide to our lives that told us how…
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“Intuition comes in many forms. One way that often happens is a jolt to a stop. This happens when a trigger is set off in you that feels like a threat to either your self-worth or your survival centers. Think of an exaggerated example. If you were walking in the woods and suddenly spotted a…
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“There’s a big difference between giving someone the benefit of the doubt and turning a blind eye to anything someone does just because you like them a lot. Being generous and understanding are great qualities, just make sure someone doesn’t use them all up on you. Kindness should be appreciated, not taken advantage of. ”…
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“Appreciation for what you have doesn’t mean you have to resign thinking anything could be even better. Appreciative and complacent are two different words. Being appreciative while striving to improve will allow you to be happy every step of the way. ” Doe Zantamata “Doe Zantamata …
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“Someone else’s insecurity and mistrust are the roots of big time drama. You can expect to spend a lot of time explaining, justifying, coddling, and walking on eggshells if you choose to be close to someone who struggles with those things. With your best efforts and patience, you may be able to help them some,…
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“Opening yourself up to a person takes a huge amount of courage and trust. Even if you think you know, you never really know how they will react or respond and that will always be out of your control. In keeping them out, you keep the risk of disappointment and pain out. But in keeping…
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“Living in a world without trust is truly painful. When a person says, “trust is something that needs to be earned,” it’s a big sign that this person’s trust was broken one too many times, and they got fed up. Without trust, stories are invented, and drama flows freely. With trust, a person can take…
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“In all your waking hours, you’re having a mind party. Your thoughts are your guests. Those which you don’t pay attention to and refuse to entertain will eventually get bored and leave. Make sure to only entertain the ones that you want to keep around.” Doe Zantamata …
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“Anyone can hold a grudge, but it takes a person with character to forgive. When you forgive, you release yourself from a painful burden. Forgiveness doesn’t mean what happened was OK, and it doesn’t mean that person should still be welcome in your life. It just means you have made peace with the pain, and…
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